Your church family is a category of relationship that the world knows nothing about.
A lot of people on Facebook and are always like got friends i got friends i got friends...Do you know what’s better than friends??...FAMILY. God gave us a family and God is the father of our family and we are brother and sisters in the church family. Some of you would say this church is hard and i don't feel like I’m family and i don’t feel like I’m connected, i don’t feel like I’m close, some people here annoy me or bother me, or we don't get along...welcome to family. Family is awkward and family is hard and family is complicated and the family is trying, but you still must serve the family you love the family you, and don’t give up on the family. If you have family you love them, but church is family because this is the family you’re going to be with forever. I hope your whole biological family gets saved and is also a part of our spiritual family. Some of you have two families and, and your biological family got saved and now you just have one big extended church family.
However, your church family is incredibly important because those are the members who do two things, listen and obey. They do what they are supposed to do after hearing what they are supposed to hear. That’s their activity. If this church doesn’t feel like home...serve. Do you know the difference between a restaurant and a family dinner? You go to a restaurant and sit down and somebody takes care of everything. You could even complain about it, “I did not like the mashed potatoes, the gravy was too salty”, or something like that. However, if you did that to your mother, your father would do something to you. If you go to your parent’s house and just sit down they will probably say something to the lines of “Hey, what are you doing sitting down, you need to set the table. Get up and go set the table.” You’re part of the family!! If you want something out of the refrigerator, get up and get it because this is family. When dinner is done, don't leave your plate on the table. Go take it to the sink, scrape it, and clean it. Why? This is a family.
The difference between a restaurant and a family is whether or not you do something. Some of you treat this church as family. You come saying “I’m going to pick up my trash, I’m going to tithe, I’m going to help in outreach, and I’m going to help some people because this is family. I know it’s a mess, it’s a big crazy family, but it’s my family. Give me a chore. Give me something to do, help me be part of the family. Some say “I did not like the worship service, the sermon was very long.” What’s different in a family is when you see a need you meet it!
the above is an excerpt from a message written by Bradley Hettinga
My addition to my young brothers word is "family, both naturally, and spiritually come with responsibilities. In a natural family, responsibilities comes such as chores, such as washing dishes, sweeping the floor, taking out the trash." However, in the spiritual family, these responsibilities may still be there, but not in the carnal sense. Being the temple of the Holy Ghost, keep it clean. Take out your trash daily(sin), wash those dishes, and sweep out all the iniquity. The cleaner you are, the stronger you are, and for every member who is clean and strong, the stronger the family is.
Invest your life in God and His people!!!!


